What parents can do to support growth mindset

What is a growth mindset?

A growth mindset is the belief that abilities and intelligence can be developed through effort, effective strategies, and support from others. This view helps children approach challenges with curiosity rather than fear of failure. For trusted explanations, see
APA: Growth Mindset,
Mindset Works – The Science of Growth Mindset, and
Stanford News on Growth Mindset.

“Mistakes are learning opportunities; persistence matters more than instant success.”

Practical strategies for families

  • Praise effort and strategies: “You stuck with it and tried a new approach.”
  • Focus on the process and the steps taken, not just the final result.
  • Normalize mistakes as part of growth and discuss what can be learned from them.
  • Offer tasks that are challenging but achievable, with support to plan and try again.
  • Model a growth mindset by sharing your own learning experiences and how you overcome setbacks.

Family activities to strengthen growth mindset

  1. Try a new skill or hobby together and talk about the challenges and strategies you use.
  2. Keep a simple learning journal: describe a problem, which attempts you tried, and what you learned.
  3. Set growth goals with your child and review progress weekly, focusing on effort and strategies.

Common challenges and gentle reminders

  • When a child says “I can’t,” respond with “Let’s try a different approach.”
  • Avoid labeling children as “smart” or “talented”—these labels can limit effort and resilience.
  • Provide tasks that are just beyond current abilities and celebrate the effort and learning.

Helpful resources for parents

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